Remember when Napoleon Dynamite first came out? Remember the ensuing tide of people quoting the movie…regardless of whether or not it fit the context? “Your mom goes to college!”, “nun chuck skills”, and “gosh…” Now don’t get me wrong, the movie itself is one of my favorites, but the use of the lines from it was nothing short of overkill. In fact, I couldn’t bring myself to watch it again for about a year after it was released.
This was not because the continually used quotes ruined the movie because it was simply one-liners, and hearing them so much effectively demonstrated the lack of actual substance. No. What it did do was obscure the true genius of the movie: it’s insight into youth’s social structures (made all the more ironic by it’s adoption by those same systems), the superb use of silence, and Napoleon’s compulsive lying, just to name a few (maybe this is a slight overrating…). It was, for me at least, psychological guilt by association.
I think something similar can happen, and does happen, with passages of Scripture (and maybe even the whole thing). I was reminded of one of these instances in a conversation with a few friends about their New Testament class. The part that was brought up was from 1 Corinthians 13:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
This is one of the more famous and widely used passages of Scripture. Weddings are a favorite place for it to be read (which is odd considering both the current divorce rate and the more-than-romantic nature of the “love” in the text). Like Napoleon Dynamite quotes, the simple over-use of the verses has rendered mostly cliché. This is entirely unfortunate, because it is beautiful verse. But beauty itself doesn’t protect anything from the monotony of human experience. If the Mona Lisa was, literally, thrown at your head four times a day I’m sure you’d get sick of seeing it too.
But, what this also means is that the problem to be overcome isn’t with the verse itself, but with perception. So, we’ll be trying then not to say something entirely new (nothing “hidden since the foundations of the world”) but to tilt our heads and look again.
One of the more interesting things about this passage is it’s lack of personal agency; there is no one doing anything. This may be weird considering the way the Bible is often read (I can’t count how many times I’ve heard it referred to as a guidebook…or “instruction manual”). Despite any impulse to know explicitly, “what should I do to love?” Paul instead describes love in terms of its own actions and character. If we want to learn the skill of love (which may explain why the contemporary world obsessed with gaining skills tends to ignore love as a power), Paul will not oblige. Love is something more.
Let’s start with a different question.
How do you teach someone to love? The answer is so obvious here that it may be missed: you love them! Children don’t learn what love is by being set down and told or by memorizing a formula, they know love by being loved. Love is something that happens to them. This is what the apostle is getting by making love and not a person the agent in the passage. In our search for a step-by-step guide we have missed the real aim of the passage: it’s communicating something about God to us! Forest for the trees!
Paul is not alone in his thought here. In Matthew 5, Jesus gives what are now called the Beatitudes, “Blessed are the poor in spirit…those who mourn…the meek…” Again notice the lack of anything to do. Philippians 2 which talks in very direct terms about what it is we are to do, prefaces the section with “for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose” (Phil 2.13).
What this means is that love is not something we do. It is something (a power) that causes, it is the grounding of our actions. We learn love by being loved, by others and ultimately by being loved by God (if love is actually this power, would it be possible without God?). God’s love is what allows us to love and creates the love we have.
St. Augustine expressed the idea so succinctly and beautifully as “Love, and do as you will.” Love is not simply another action among many, or a kind of action, no. It is something greater something beyond, a power the creates and gives birth to movement. Wayne Cristaudo writes in his book Power, Love and Evil, “What is real is generative. That is, the real is what creates subsequent events, subsequent actions, subsequent facts. What is generative is thus by definition a power.”
Love is real in precisely this sense.